Ok. i am so tired of this. idk what i should to do. advice please.....?

he sounds like he is insecure.maybe u dont ask him. just do it.get sum nice underwear and jump on him,so 2 speak.try new things, like things u wud never let him do 2 u or things u wud not do 4 him b4. talk 2 him in bed say things 2 turn him on,there are sum realy gud websites out there 2 help u with pillow talk and how 2 spice up ur life. o ye and tell him u love him.gud luck